Breaking Societal Rules to be self confident & love yourself | Madison headshot photographer | Madison portrait photography | Madison Boudoir photography
I’m not suggestion you go break the law, that’s not the type of rules we are talking about right now.
Have you ever asked yourself why it is that slimmer girls appear to get more likes and more popular faster on social media?
Have you ever asked yourself why as moms we think we have to do all these things that other moms are doing in order to be a “good mom”?
Have you ever asked yourself why you feel like crap after you go on social media?
It’s time to put a stop to being compared, feeling lesser than, feeling like an outcast because of your body type. Say F it to ALL OF IT and let’s get empowered together.
I started reading the book “Braving the wilderness” by Brene Brown last week and boy, it’s summarized what I’ve been trying to accomplish over the last year.
Why am I me? What does being me even mean? What is my mission in life? What am I suppose to share with others and how am I supposed to help others? How do I be me without letting fear and anxiety of become that amazing person take over?
We as humans are afraid of change, even if that change means that the most amazing things in our world are going to happen. Why can’t we be like little kids and just go for it so fast without stopping and thinking about it for years?
I’m suggesting that you envision that person you know in your gut you are called to be, all anxiety and mental health aside, what calls to you? What does that person look like? Forget body types, let’s talk about your passions, your talents, how YOU want to help other people. Focus on it so much that all else doesn’t seem as scary. The desire to be confident, to be that amazing person should trump any fear and anxiety you have (if it doesn’t yet, don’t worry, it takes time)
Take small steps, you must get outside of your comfort zone in order to be this amazing person, great things don’t come without some form of discomfort. Discomfort is not a bad thing!
I hope that this words today help you in some way, I hope that they inspire you to be amazing person you’re called to be. Reach inside your soul, listen and jump. Do that every single day.
I invite you to schedule a photoshoot for yourself, because it is important that in order to see what that confident woman looks like even if you can’t feel it right now. Contact me today to book yours. 608-622-7752 | firstname.lastname@example.org
Miriam Bulcher is a local Madison, Sun Prairie, Middleton, luxury portrait photographer. She specializes in a full service portrait studio experience to empower men and women by offering in home wardrobe consultations, professional hair, makeup, and vogue like photoshoot. She services all of Madison as well as Milwaukee, Chicago, Iowa and beyond!